Is this a guy way to let a girl down gently?
I like this one guy. He was the one who first doing all the hard works to get my attentions. He flirts, makes eye contacts, smiling, touching, teasing & etc.
There is this girl, Amy, in our group who is interested in him. Everyone was trying to hook them up. They are quite close. They actually had known each other for quite some time. At some point, I thought both of them are couple when I first introduced into the group.
Once our group were in a night outing. That was a fun night and someone was singing some songs. Then, he suddenly joined in and sang some love songs. Everyone was so quite. There were only 2 girls in our group, Amy and I. The environment suddenly turned into so weird. I peeked at him and I saw him gazing at me. I was so embarrassed and I think I turned all red at that moment. I don't know why. I think I’m very shy.
The next day, his friends started to tease on both of us. Later, I somehow asked him if he meant anything while he sang the song, he denied and mentioned that he was just sung for fun.
I was so hurt. Since then, I had distanced myself from him. I somehow made myself believe that all the while it was me, who had misinterpreted his friendship. He might not interest in me at all. The one he likes is Amy.
Anyhow, some occasions had forced us meeting up each other occasionally. He always tries to lock my eyes and gave the deep gaze without saying anything. He got very jealous when he saw me out with his friend whom he knows he is interested in me. I confused.
Since I felt so uncomfortable talking to him personally, I asked him in mail why he is bothering me while he is with Amy. He replied that he was so sorry for all the misunderstandings. He told me I got my thoughts all wrong and he did not understand why I pull Amy into the picture.
I’m uncertain of his feelings towards me again. I like him but I know it shouldn’t be a one way street. If he is not interested, I’m willing to let go. Thus, I mailed him back confessed him again if *he never likes me*. He took some times to reply and it’s even confused me more with his note. He wrote: Err.. You are so direct, how would you want me to answer? I like everyone as a "normal" friend. So, by now, I really don’t know if he is really interested in me or... Is this a guy way to let a girl down gently?
