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I am a 26 years old girl and working girl.Recently i got married.I am facing problem since few weeks.After sexual intercourse with my husband sometimes i get burning sensation in my private part.Its unbearable fr 10-15 mins.During that time i like to urinate it relaxes me.During sex everything is normal but after few mins it starts.why it happens?I cant ask my husband not for no sex.what is solution fr my problem??I am very much worried.
you could be allergic to his semen or you could have an std/sti or you could have a kidney infection/urinary tract. It could be anything. Go to the doctor.
You haven't specified, if you use condom make sure that isn't from the 7/11 stores. Those have low quantity of lubrificant
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Might be a latex allergy. Try using non-latex condoms.
Generally we use ultra thin condom.He wont ejaculates inside me.During initial encounter we he didnt use condom and i remember few times he fired in me. Even then i felt pain may be because i was virgin but it went for 2 or 3 times. Since then he is using condoms.Now i am getting burning sensation.I wont get it always but yes when i get its not good.It seems i must urinate that time.Also my frnd told that it happens when one is new to sex...but is it true??when the pain will go completely???I enjoy sex with my husband.After we finish i gets the pain..why it happens????Quote:
Originally Posted by JJhon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How many times have you had sex? Maybe its just new to you and your body needs time to adjust? Its normal to urinate after sex. I nearly always do too. Its healthier apparently to urinate before and after sex so you shouldn't worry about that.
You may be allergic to latex as Vince said. You could try different condoms or go on the pill
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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I got married end week of last month. Since then i am having it everyday except 2-3 days. Many times we do it for 2 times single night. Infact he loves to do it and get release. I dont know why i didnt got adjusted to it since 1 month. How much time it will take for my body to adjust. Do i need to see doctor?Does anyone has felt it. Even i had not discussed it with my hubby. I dont want him to get worried. He may think i am having problem. What may be best way for it? Do i need to consider it serious and see any doctor?
Are you enjoying it? Does he spend time on foreplay to help you relax? Do you orgasm each time? Maybe you just need to communicate so its more enjoyable for you too. If you are not relaxed or wet enough for intercourse it will hurt more. It takes time for your body to get used to sex. You may also get some pain in your stomach or your sides which is also normal but if you are worried see a doctor.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alisha [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Initially i was feeling pain. But now that has gone, i use to enjoy it. Not always, but sometimes i get burning sensation. He gives sometime for foreplay. Generally he use to finger me everytime before intercourse. No i wont orgasm most of time. once he gets release he goes for sleep. what i will communicate?he may think wrong about me. I want to know how much time it takes to get use to sex. For guys there is no problem of adjustment or what??I feel he enjoys it too much. I wish i also get same feeling.
Step one....communication. You MUST tell your husband what is going on with you...you are married, and you need to let him know about the pain, or anything else that is bothering you. Hiding it is just stupid.
Step two....see a doctor. Pain is in idicator that something isn't right. It might not be serious, but if you want the pain to stop you need to seek medical help and to make sure you don't have something more serious like an infection or an allergy.
Step three....make sure you have a yearly PAP test.
Yes take Smackies above advice AND:
tell your husband what you like. Do you masturbate? Show him how to touch you and help him to help you orgasm. You need to communicate. If you dont enjoy sex-you will go off it and get bored of it fairly fast so that is a major issue. What about oral sex? You and he could look things up on the internet together so he can learn how to give you an orgasm.
Sex will be much better for you once you start to enjoy it
Ok i will try to tell him. But i feel odd in discussing it with him. I wont masterbate after i got married. Even before i never did too much. We don't do much oral sex. Its always he who initiate and finish. I think i need to communicate with him. But if he get wrong impression of me it will be problem. I don't want him to consider me as sex addicted.Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think your worrying about telling him too much. IMHO its great when a woman can talk about sex. Just be open with him. Discussing sex is part of a healthy relationship and can lead to lots of fun and great sex.