suspicious, or normal behaviour?
Dear all,
I registered to this site because of a dispute me and my significant other got into the other day. It rather escalated and blame is being cast back and fourth and of course his friends agree with him and mine with me (as those things go). Now I decided it is time to get the objective opinion of the masses! In other words: a forum.
To get to the point. I am Dutch, my boyfriend is English and I moved to England last year to live together and to start a university course.
With the Easter holidays I decided to visit my home again (Holland). My boyfriend made the choice to stay in England. Yesterday he sent me a message saying he would be meeting an old friend of his (who is homosexual as well) for: 'a coffee and maybe a film', but he would be home around ten in the evening for a chat. As it turned ten he sent me a message saying he was at his friends place watching a musical and therefore wouldn't be home at ten.
Now the argument is that it is perfectly normal to go over to your gay friends house, being homosexual yourself, when your boyfriend is abroad, or that it is rather strange and perhaps even slightly suspicious... Thoughts? Perfectly normal, or perhaps slightly odd, or plain cheating?
( It might be worth taking into account that the same thing happened before, but then it was his 'ex' and he stayed over the night because the trains didn't run).
First and foremost my apologies for posting this here, but it was the first forum that popped up ;).