Should I tell her?

Been in a relationship for 2 years now. About 3 months ago me and my g/f (we'll call her X) had a short, two-week breakup (she called it a breather/break, I call it a break-up). Anyway, during our 2-week break I ended up telling my mom what happened. So, co-incidently, my mom says that her friend's daughter (we'll call her B) was looking for a date and could never find a guy she liked. So I said I was interested.

So B and I exchanged pictures, emailed each other a couple times, then we went on a date on the thursday before me and X reconciled.

Anyway, B and I's date was just dinner and a movie. She said she had a really great time, I did too...we hugged (I felt she wanted me to kiss her, but I didn't because I was still talking to X at the time.) So the following SAT, me and X got back together and worked things out. I called B and told her what happened and she was all pissy and we haven't spoke since.

Now even though me and B didn't do anything besides hang out together and one hug, i still feel weird about it. Would you guys tell your g/f if this happened to you? Or have I waited too long and she'll suspect I was cheating because I waited so long to tell her?

Tell her. The longer you wait the worse it's gonna sound and the more guilty you're gonna feel. Nothing happened and you guys were on a break, so there shouldn't be a problem. Tell her.

I vote no - don't tell her (assuming you are sure you mother won't blab). It isn't any of her business if you were broken up, and she will only get all weird about it.

Yeah but if you "hide" it from her and she finds out someway (these things have funny ways of turning up) you're going to find it extremely hard to convince her nothing happened cause she's going to say "Well if nothing happened why not just tell me? Why hide it?" and make her all suspicious and stuff =/

I mean you know your g/f better than all of us, so I guess it's up to you. If she's understanding, trusting, and doesn't trip on little things, then tell her to clear you conscious and cover your ass later on, sorta. If she would throw a fit and make a big deal outta nothin, then maybe you might wanna say you missed your window of opportunity to come clean...

So, basically, Chris, what we are saying is that you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.

Basically. :)

I got it! Tell her, but blame it on your mom. Like, "I want to tell you something b4 you hear it from...so it was like that...i was doin' my mom a favor..."

Is that a devious way to slip through somebody's net, er what?

Seriously: Probably best to let her know. Her finding out from someone else can only be worse. If things between you are such that you can't casually discuss the facts of things without getting suspicious of each other, then the relationship is already on shaky ground anyway, and your conversations should, probably, be directed to topics OTHER than who either of you may or may not have gone to a film with.

Wow I think thats awesome you want to tell her, and that you do feel weird about it. I say go for it, I can be scary but play the " I wanted to be honest because I felt guilty" card. And blame it on your mom too. Yeah she will probably be upset, but it will blow over, good for you!