I met my first serious girlfriend in a store she approached me I was a store attendant and we got chatting and I invited her out to a bar, the next girlfriend approached me on "myspace",
and the one just broke up with we met on facebook again she made the first move.
I am not coming across desperate on any dating sites just making the first move, as women expect us to make the first move, by saying "hi hows it going nice photos" doesnt sound desperate to me just being honest, im not saying "will i be alone forever" because I am not giving it time.
going out and approaching women is so odd, any guy who does that is deemed as some creep, well here in england anyways, you dont go into tesco and speak to someone down the pasta isle, you just dont,