How to recognize a love addict?
Love addiction is actually a psychological disorder despite the fact tht it doesn't sound so. I have suspicions that my ex is one although I'm not sure. She has most symptoms. Come to think of it now, portraying herself as a victim and constantly making me feel guity about everything is definitely something that I came across with her on daily basis.
Come to think of it, I wasn't really love avoidant like I thought...although I acted like it. That relationship just didn't satisfy me. I'm in a ridiculous state of mind now. Feel so much guilt. Not sure if it's because I feel i wronged her or because she made me constantly feel guilty. Like, there were a few times where I mentioned marriage. When I felt estatic. But I always would come down to earth. Realize that I just can't do it with her. Usually when we werent't alone but with her kid as well.Then despite knowing my reluctance she would always blame me how could I mention mariage and grt her hopes up and then take it back. I mentioned marriage like 3 times in 2 years but she'd hold onto it for months trying to force it......despite me always telling her I'm not okay with how things are .
Sorry for so many threads recently. Just using this as some sort of a therapy I guess. I need it.