so hurt and confused

My boyfriend of 3 years decided after we had a huge fight to leave and go out of town to work. Thiswas4 weeks ago and I've only heard from him 3 times. He says he has no phone and is miserable but he keeps slipping up and he is really going out sometimes. He called last week to wish me a happy late mothers day and then asked if I was going on with my life?? He acted as if he missed me and told me I should watch the movie silver linning playbook, I told him we watched it together and he said oh watch it again. All the while he kept bringing up the secretary at his job but I never said anything. Then he asked if i have went out anywhere and I said one time to the hookah with my aunt and he replied I'm sorry I called you and hung up on me. I'm not sure what is intentions are and i feel as if my life is in limbo. I love him a lot but he is always mad about something amd he always gets very nasty with me when I try to tell him what I don't like. He is 25 and a libra if that helps.

Why are you not sure what his intentions are? He's moved out of town and moved on. And so should you! Ann

He's called you because he is a controlling douche. He is just fishing for information....wants to see if you are seeing other guys. He acts like he misses you to keep you hoping......he is treating you like crap sister, stop putting up with it. Stop talking to him.