People who marry or date for money are by far the most pathetic
Just wanted to say this. Fortunately, I don't run into a lot of women like that, guess I ve developed a good radar for things like that but there are people like that. And well, it is usually one of men's pet peeves and it adds to our insecurity and it may be somewht understandable why women do it, sense lf security is important to them and money certainly adds to it.
But still, loving, marrying, dating are some of the most profound and personal of human experiences.. Being real is what it's all about. I always think nothing is worth to the man if he's lost himself. I experienced something similar at first. Wanted to get a big money degree in a field that I absolutely didn't love. It was dreadful. I was so happy when I decided to quit it. It was the only and last time that I ever did something just for money. Disgusting experience.
And that was just education. Something far less profound than dating. To date someone for money, you gotta be soulless IMO.
Not saying it isn't important, I value money, I wanna earn it. Want my work to show even material benefits. But fortunately, it is something I love doing.
I don't really carr if women have money and yes, i know it doesn't work that way lol. I know us men usually don't get to think about it, like how do i even dare, right lol?
I guess I just like when a woman strives to improve herself, because I'm like that as well.
Dating lazy and unambitious people may be stupid, i get that. And respect is as well. Because that's not materialistic.
That's something personal.
Guess it's for that reason I usually avoid woo girls and such....danger radar turns on...may be shallow, head up in space, values upside down.
