Lovely girl suddenly became cold and distant
So, almost an year ago I met this girl via my friend and we got along well. We chatted on facebook sometimes, but couple of months ago we suddenly started to talk much more and got to know each other a little bit. Then she invited me to her home (she lives 200km from me) and I went. It was the most wonderful time I've ever had. I stayed at her home for three nights. We really got along well and we wouldn't let each other go for the time I was there. We hugged, slept together, cuddled, held hands and talked about everything for the whole weekend. We met some of her friends and she openly held my hand and hugged me in front of them and introduced me to her mother and sisters. She told me alot of her really personal stuff, like breaking up with her long-time boyfriend an year ago which among other things drove her into major depression and even a suicide attempt. She told me how wonderful it was that I was there with her and that she likes me and I told her that I like her too. Of course, I was a little bit shy and silent sometimes because I was really nervous about meeting her, I knew she was a great girl before I even went to see her and I hadn't seen her for almost an year. She often asked me to tell stuff and sometimes I struggled to get a word out of my mouth. When I was about to leave, she grabbed me and hugged me tight for a long time and then I went home. Now this was a month ago.
After coming home I tried to talk to her on facebook the next day, but she wouldn't say much and ended the converstaion quickly. I tought she was being busy or something, but it's been the same every time I've tried to talk to her on facebook, send her a text message or call her. She really says nothing and she's really cold and distant. This continued for two weeks, then it just started to bug me so much that I asked her what does she think about me. She then told me she's going to sleep and doesn't know how to answer. Well then couple of days later she tells me that "You're really nice." Then after that she says "I'm really bad at answering to this." I told her it's alright and that I like her too. We didn't talk for a week after that, but then I texted her just to ask how she's doing. She texts me back briefly and I text her back and then she doesn't answer me anymore. Now I haven't even tried to talk to her for a week because it feels ****ing impossible. She hasn't contacted me either. I really like her alot, I've never had feelings this strong for a girl. Now I'm just sitting here and wondering what the hell is going on. Why won't she talk to me and why is she so distant? It seems like she doesn't even care anymore and all this is just tearing my mind apart. What did I do wrong? Please help me.
