love understanding problem

Im21.he’s 24.he used to love me and care me a lot. But he used to ask me if I opened fb when he’s not in it and said he stopped using fb when I came into his lyf.he asked me not to put lipstick n not to wear a saree(since he thinks saree exposes my body and told to put lipstick lightly) which I love. He always commands me to do something or change something. That’s his nature.i want to study abroad and he said no.i like to meditate(mng-2hrs n evng-2 hrs) and he doesnot like this and asked how am I going to look after him and kids if I spend more time for it.i love my sis and he said that I like my sis more than him.i have a friend and personally she’s not good and my bf asked me to stop friendship wth her n said he doesn’t like his wife to be in a bad company.i don’t speak to him when im with my friends and he says my friends are more to me than him. I xplained him dat I don’t like to tell about him since dey r nt gud n he askd hw long am I going to hide.(actually my sis was married to his cousin and her lyf was not at all good and so my parents are up set how my life would be with dis guy.one day dey told me dat I need not change things for him).he often gets angry. I was fed up with him and asked hm to leave me. He cried a lot in phn for half an hr and told he wud catch my legs.i told him dat im not his maid or dog to do what all he asks and dats not love.i thought he controlling me. He was very upset and told dat I need not change and he would die if I leave him.atlast I accepted to love him again in confusion. he said he will never again ask me to change and will remember dat life long.since his cousin also has much angry like him and bf controls me I used to change veryoften in the beginning and he used 2 be very upset nd askd what he has done.i askd hm sorry 4 what all has happened he said ok bt started neglecting me and I cried n atlast he askd me dat I understood how he felt dat day.i said sorry.he said ok.but he maintained gap with me like not caring me much. I changed my likings for him also. I askd him and he said he can’t bare the pain if I again change my mind and avoiding me and said no 1 can b together vthout adjusting.i xplained him how I felt (he thought I changed coz of my parents and I said it all depends on u) and he said he will be close to me.but now he won’t tell me anything, wont spend much time with me,always plays games or watch moviesor spend with his frndzz. I cried a lot.he said he has changed nd asked me to 4get all dat hapnd.but still I can feel d difference.his zodiac sign is leo.what should I do now?how will I get the same love n care he showed before.plz help me.i read dat leo's are of dis nature and i didnot understand him. plzz help me.