Caught out?

Hi ladies,

First of all i want to start out, i love my woman, recently she found a site that i had used to watch for porn, now this isn’t something i regularly do but i did and she found it.

She was very upset about it, I don’t love her any less, i love her more each day but since she found it she has just distanced herself from me. I didn’t realise she would become so upset and i didn’t lie about it, i admitted that i did it and because of how upset she was i did promise i wouldn’t anymore.

I just don’t know what to do as I’ve already admitted, i didn’t lie about it and when i found out i made a promise not to.. Just a bit stuck really because i do love her and i don’t want her to feel like she is inadequate.

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I don't see what the big deal is. I'm a female and I watch porn and my boyfriend doesn't. He was upset initially because he thought I might talk to guys on that site and I assured him you don't need an account to watch on tht site and that I have no interest in talking to other guys and everything has been cool. I know some ppl get really upset about it and I have no clue why. I would talk to her about it.

I'm a little confused. Was she aware you were a porn watcher? Or, was she unaware until she found it, and when she asked you, you were "honest".

it makes a lot of people feel insecure or jealous. just tell her you only went on it out of curiousity and you dont want her to feel bad about it. ask her forgiveness and tell her you want to move on from this and be happy together.

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since she found it she has just distanced herself from me.

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Just because you were looking at porn? FFS.

I don't see why it's such a problem, and honestly, I think you've done all you can at this point.