Is not being able to define yourself as a certain way a bad thing?
Yesterday I was hanging out with my friend and she basically said I was weird because I like variety. It's true I have a variety of interests. I could wear a sundress and heels one day, and a band t shirt and sneakers the next, or maybe a flannel shirt and some boots. I like all different kinds of music. She thinks this keeps me from attracting men because they can't get a feel for who I really am, and makes me seem indecisive, but I don't get it. I just genuinely like different things. How is that bad?