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or is it possible to be "too" horny?
im 20 and i have masturbated since i was maybe 13 or 14. my current bf and i have great sex and all, we're kinky and do it often. but sometimes, i feel like i have to masturbate even after sex. and i'll do it secretly in our room. i can do it like up to 3 times a day if we're mostly home. i think i have a higher sex drive than my bf. and dont get me wrong i love sex but i also love masturbation and just watching porn while i do it.
I agree - as long as your masturbating doesn't get in the way of you having sex with your boyfriend that is enjoyable and satisfying for the both of you, then you aren't masturbating too much.
Maybe you feel the need to masturbate after sex because you are unable to reach orgasm during sex? So obviously since you are turned on, you will want to finish. Or maybe you just like getting multiple orgasms. Either way, maybe you could tell your boyfriend and he could take care of you. I'm just suggesting it because if you feel the need to do it in secret, maybe it means you aren't OK with it.
Men have one orgasm and they are usually ready to fall asleep. Many women still feel horny after sex-after one orgasm. I have often woken my bf up at 2am for more coz im still horny and cant sleep lol..
And I agree with searock-your not doing anything wrong. as long as you dont let it interfere with your relationship or other important areas of your life-its fine
This could also just be a phase-maybe after awhile you will go back to once a day.. who knows? My sex drive went through the roof for about 6 months but then went back to normal. but there is nothing wrong with you
Best of luck :)
It probably isn't too much for you, if you feel like you need and want to do it, I know guys who do it 2-3 times a day and have sex as well.
ur sex drive is pretty high. u masturbate a lot but i dont think it has crossed into the realm of "too much"
Nothing wrong with that. As Michelle said, sometimes if the guy is done before us then then we stil be horny. In the end i always want another round. I use my dildo in the shower often cuz sometimes i just want to get it done. One day, i remember i got myself off like all day. Think my bf at that time was out of town and my cookie stayed slippery. No worries as long as it doesnt effet your well being or personal life like an addiction.
Just a thought. Do you think you may be less hooked on the masturbating and simply just addicted to watching porn? Do you get off without watching porn? If you did not watch porn would you still be getting off ? just curious. I have no problem with people watching porn but sometimes you can become addicted and get a warped sense of what normal sex with normal people is like and it can screw up your normal sex life because it will never measure up to what you are watching. I would suggest that you get yourself off as much as you want but try doing it without the porn. If you find yourself doing it less then you know what your problem is.
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I'm the same way, I almost always have to finish myself off after sex. The only time my boyfriend gets me off, is with his hands. Now don't get me wrong, we have great sex, and it feels great, but I find my mind is never focused enough to actual reach that point. I think as long as it doesn't affect your sex life (you start NOT wanting sex with your bf, he notices a change) then you're okay.
As long as it doesn't affect intimacy with your boyfriend, it's all good.