Should I stay or should I go? Advice Please :(
Hi Everyone
Im 27 and my partner is 32, we been together almost 4 years now. I live with my parents and he lives by himself in a house owned by his parents. I really want to move out and for us both to live together but the feeling isn't mutual. I have a good job and could comfortably afford our own place, he however isn't in such a well paid job and doesn't want to make the move and take our relationship to the next level. We have had a few problems over the years and dont get to see eachother often due to work commitments so I thought living together would be a positive step as we would be going to bed and waking up together. However he isn't ready for this and basically told me that he is too immature and doesn't want to move out any time soon (wont give my any kind of timescale either). I'm really hurt that he doesn't want to live with me :( He has zero ambition for us and it's come to the point where I feel so insecure about our relationship! We have recently argued about this and met up earlier today. We both agreed that we really don't want to split but that maybe we should as we want different things. I really don't want to split up with him but we can't go on like this. I see all my friends getting married and having kids, seems like il never get that if i stay with him. What do I follow my heart that wants to be with him or my head that says to leave??