hey all
what men actually want in long term relationship.....is this trust,beauty,sex,intimacy,understanding or care????
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hey all
what men actually want in long term relationship.....is this trust,beauty,sex,intimacy,understanding or care????
Sex gets boring after a while so it definitely can't be that for good guys.
1-trust
2-personality/character
3-intimacy
4-sex
Beauty/attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. That being said, without that spark none of the other qualities will get discovered. So magnetism is the key that opens the door so the other attributes can be discovered.
YC, you must have been doing it wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lol. It's really not that special. You turn in another rote performance after the other. Soon, you try to spice it up with experimenting, dabbling in whips and chains and cosplay and filthy techniques...It just gets boring after a while. Man has always really and wanted a woman who will stay and have a personality.
You would think trust, respect, and compatibility would be the biggest factors in a relationship, but I guess it depends on the person and what they're looking for.
Make a relationship, sex does not.
Men don't ever want to get bored.
^^ dud rootQuote:
Originally Posted by YoungCosmo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Just joking.
Seriously though, it gets better with practice. My first few times were quite forgettable but as I've learned more, I've enjoyed more.
what if i have done oral sex with the guy i love in the begining of relationship even he was not committed to me that time.... its been 7 months and we are in contact to each other ...in the begining he has done oral sex and foreplay with me about 4 -5 times with great passion ,seems he loved me ,so i allowed him to do so...but whenever i asked for commitment he just ignored ,he never had any relationship before with any other woman and is very shy guy among girls....is there any chance that he will commit or take me seriously...even now he has been intimate with me once again....what does it mean ,he needs a just this things from me or have some feelings for me as its been a long timeQuote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It means that he enjoys fooling around with you - but nothing more. An easy mistake to make for beginners....heaven knows I had to learn this the hard wayQuote:
Originally Posted by lovelycse [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sorry dear I have some bad news.....the reason a guy wont commit is because you are not the one he wants to be with. You are only temporary and only wants sex. He is keeping his options open for "the one" when she comes into his life. We see girls like you on here all the time and like I have told them, you are wasting your time with this guy because if he hasn't commit to you by now, he never will.
All I want is someone to scratch my back. So nice nails is a must.
Smackie is right hun. In future do not have sexual contact with a guy until he is committed to you. Most wont use you. Believe it or not most men are actually genuine and decent. Your just unlucky to have this db as a first..
You need to kick him to the curb, set your standards high and make the next guy work hard to impress YOU and to prove he is committed to you before you jump in the sack with him.
Its an easy mistake to make so forgive yourself and move on. Everything we do in life is a learning experience and every frog you kiss brings you one step closer to the right one.
Best of luck
What do men want? companionship and space.
Without sex, the relationship is merely a friendship.Quote:
Originally Posted by AbigailR [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]