Im Going Mad

Hi
I see this girl everyday on the way to school shes listenin to her mp3 as am i
as we walk past each other i smile ather and she smiles back .
This one time i smiled at her and she sort of did a really girly giggle and carried on walkin as i turned my head to see her walkin off she was lookin back at me . and my heart jsut raced .
We both go to different school we walk alone to school so i dotn knwo who her friends are and i dotn know were she lives i really want to know wether she likes me . but i dont want the humiliation of rejection . i already have a low self esteem from being bullied at school numerous times . i dont think i can cope with rejection again please help me .
Thanks

How about taking the headphones off and actually talking to her? It can't be that hard to spend a couple minutes asking questions or learning about each other. You don't necessarily have to ask her out immediatly. Get to know her first.

On another note, your going to have to accept rejection eventually. I went through the whole being bullied & depressed thing through highschool too. Rejection is part of life, everyone experiences that. You won't know till you try.

Rejection is better than regret. It's better to try and know you did your part, than to spend the rest of your days wishing you had tried, always wondering "what if... what if..." etc etc blah blah I feel I've typed this a hundred times now on this forum. Just do it dood.

Thanks both erm ........ i only walk past her on the way to school an i dont know how to aproach her i never really done it to someone i didnt know b4 ........... argh i cant get her outta ma head ... this is gona sound really sad but i had a dream about her and i jsut cant stop thinkin about her i just want to see that warm smile of hers again

Hey - I just noticed this is the same boy who can't stand seeing his girlfriend naked!
Why, you two-timing little boy-whore!

Yeah you dumb, boy-whore.

yeah i know but this has gone on longer than ive been with ma girfriend
can u not think about that when u give me advice pelase as i dont know wat to do
an yes im a boy-whore and proud

the best thing to say is - Hey don't you go to that . . . . . school? Then ask her how she likes it there and tell her your parents are looking into moving in that district. . .

That'll start the convo and then from there your on your own...

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Originally Posted by Imcrazy

but i dont want the humiliation of rejection . i already have a low self esteem from being bullied at school numerous times . i dont think i can cope with rejection again...

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Awww poor man. I dont mean to sound like an *******, but get over it mate. You know its a problem. So dont use it as an excuse. As said above, regret is bigger than rejection.

You dont know her, or her friends. They dont know you either. Who's going to humiliate you?

How old are you? Its a lot harder to see how stupid and pathetic the excuse "I'm shy and I'm afraid of rejection" really is, when you are at school.

What would I do? I would slip her my phone number when I saw her next. Write it down, with your name, and as you walk past say "Excuse me, but I think you dropped this yesterday".

Mick
PS Love the Frieza icon.

im 15 and i really wana aproach her even if its just to be friends cuz she seems really nice . shud i just walk up to her and just say hi or wat.

just say "hi" but don't add ur nick name to it . it will really sound crazy....

I think they sound a bit crazy anyway...

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Originally Posted by Tone

Rejection is better than regret. It's better to try and know you did your part, than to spend the rest of your days wishing you had tried

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dude..... thats the best thing i've heard all day today... :) thank you

really need to speak to this girl she is amazing .......... please someone give me some tips i never done it before dont know what to do .... if i just say hi im gonna look like a right tart

I'll tell ya one thing that's going to bite your butt.. Confidence. You come off as very un-confident in this thread and if you do that when you're talking to her, it's going to lower your chances. Be confident and stand with good strong posture.