newly broken hearted

I have been in love(living together and engaged) for years..4 days ago he told me he doesn't want this anymore..5yrs/4days ago...crushed..uprooted my life twice to be where he wanted to be..helped raise eachothers kids (2his 1mine) since babies...he says he loves me very much but don't have what I need....where is it? I have cried since tues...not ate since Monday night not slept more than a couple hours at a time and cant think at work..he wants me and my daughter to move out...bye cya..sorry for the pain..how? how do u love me up until then...miss u hun..love u hun...sure he has been less attentive and moody and ive been wondering whats wrong with my love....now I know he don't want me no more..i cried asked why..lost my dignity pleading for answers..wondering how does love disappear..just vanish...im without energy today...4days ...we live together... how do I leave when I don't want to loose our family..been packing..crying...I don't want this...im a good woman..i love his touch his attention his smile....he can live without me now...how is this...no answers for broken dreams and no console for a broken heart.

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Sorry to be the bearer of more bad news but hes been having an affair. All the signs are there. Hell prob regret it and want you back in a few months but you have to be strong now, hold onto your dignity and tell him to f**k off when he comes crawling.

Sorry this is happening to you. It will get easier, you just have to stay strong and look after yourself xx

I am going thru the same thing. I cant eat can't sleep lost 12 pounds since last monday. My heart is so broken. she says she loves me but doesnt want to give it another try