long distance new girl and ex situation
So I failed to listen to the advice I was given and put myself in a tricky situation:
So I started chatting to this girl online and we hit it off but she lived 5 hours away. After 2 months of chatting online we decided to meet but since she is still at school couldn't afford to travel so I want down to meet her. We ended up hitting it off and had a nice time together. She decided to sleep over at a hotel that I was staying at and we ended up having sex a few times (her suggestion to which we both agreed on). We had an awesome time together and was really nice but there was a couple things about her that made me think that a serious relationship may not work. 1, She is young and quite immature 2, distance between us 3, her plans to go to uni even further away. So basically
The second part of this situation is my ex... we broke up back in April due to her moving away and she said she couldn't handle long distance and some things on her side that went unexplained. So now she has now moved back up for uni but is in a new relationship which happens to be long distance with a guy closer to where she lives. We are meant to be going to an event together that we booked while we were still together and agreed to go as friends if we did break up which we did. She messaged me lately asking to meet up for a drink to talk about the event and room situation at the travelodge we're booked at which makes sense. But she has started trying to talk to my friends again and get friendly with them and asked a couple of them about me which seems strange to me and feels a bit like she is sending me some mixed signals. I've also seen her typing in facebook chat a few times but never sending a message through ???
So basically I might have to end the relationship with the long distance girl to save us both heart break further down the line but I'm starting to feel these old feelings coming back for my ex and just overall feeling confused by her actions. Part of me still cares about her but knows that she isn't the best of gf's but part of me thinks could she change if she did have feelings for me? or am I over thinking it and she is simply checking up on me?
Anyone have any advice or opinions on this?