I think I completely ruined something great :(
So there is this wonderful guy I met in June. We have been seeing each other since and its been heading towards becoming serious yet we have not had "the talk" about becoming something exclusive yet. I am still friends with my ex and this new guy doesn't know that. I was loaning my ex a couple of dollars so he can eat tonight in front of a deli. I didn't think this was possible but new guy was getting coffee at the Starbucks nearby. I glanced up to see him looking at me having my ex in the car. I am scared to death that new guy is going to come to some crazy conclusion that I am unfaithful or "playing him." He didn't try to confront me or anything, just kept walking to the train station and he has not texted me. We had set plans for tomorrow afternoon last time we spoke. Am I to assume he is angry and what if he doesn't contact me ever again over this? I at least want him to hear me out. I am strictly a friend to my ex. If he questions me, do I have the right to bring up the fact that he hasn't asked me to be exclusive yet? I feel that I ruined everything :(