If both earn equally, is it ok for wife to expect husband to spend while she saves
My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for more than a year and we are going to marry soon. We recently had a heated argument about managing finances after the marriage. I have always been of the opinion that given both earn equally, they should share expenditures.
However, she has taken a stance where she wants me to pay for rent/groceries/furniture (everything) while she saves for the future. She says it is normal and this is how working couples should manage finances.
I feel uncomfortable with this and I don't know why. Since half of my salary would go for house rent, I asked her to share the rent. She fought and finally agreed and now she has become highly passive aggressive, saying she doesn't think I love her and that I have chosen money over her.