Originally Posted by
WatchmansMoon
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I'm glad for you that you said I guess that today one should question whether someone's still married if they're out dating, but it's sad that we've come to that as a culture, isn't it? My thought in reading your post was "of course he's not married ~ he's dating you" but, the fact that you're questioning it is cause of concern. Are you picking up on more than just what you're seeing in some Facebook pictures, or is this possibly something that you've experienced in the past and you're worried because of that? Sometimes women just have that sense. If you're worried, have you thought that the longer you wait to just ask, the more you may be emotionally attached to him and the harder it will be later if your fears are realized and you have to break it off? Maybe you could approach the topic from the assumption he truly is divorced (i.e. "obviously you're divorced... can we talk a little about what happened to bring you to that place?") Should a topic like that be off limits if your affections are growing? Since you both have children, full disclosure and honesty would be very important to me. I hope you can find peace in this soon. Hugs and blessings to you!