Zero Sex Life!!

I belong to Indian background and got married 3 years ago. My marriage was sort of arranged. Even though I did not want to marry my wife but somehow ended up getting married to her.

Before I was married I had few relationships and the sex life was absolutely brilliant.

The first time I had a sex with my wife I knew that very moment we were sexually not compatible. Our physical side of marriage is completely dead now and I am not attracted to her at all.


Some words of wisdom please.

Anyone in similar situation???

How about you actually act like you're into this whole arranged marriage thing and work on making her happy. In return you'll be rewarded with her trying to help you be happy as well.

Since you had such a "brilliant" sex life with woman that you had no intentions of marrying, perhaps you can teach your wife how to please you the way the non-relationship worthy woman could?

Happiness is a state of mind, how about you work on your state.

You agreed to an arranged marriage and surprise surprise it doesn't work. You have two choices - acccept just how crap it and will remain OR get divorced.

You both could go to specialist who consults couples on their sex lifes. Anyway I seen guy like you who in the next moorning after marriage was like "Whata heck I did !?" But now after year they still together and keep living peaceful life. Guy turned his passion to xbox.

:( Sorry Dont worry

Wow why you even ask this silly question? You know darn well you are not going to leave this woman because it is your culture tradition to please your family I know because my current husband now is indian and hindu and two years ago while we were dating HE TOO was quote on quote forced into that marriage. He confessed it to me later on and told me he wasn't happy with her and left. But he had the balls but 95% of indian men dont SO PLEASE JUST STAY WITH YOUR WIFE, WORK ON THAT SEX LIFE AND PLEASE YOUR FAMILY

What is bad about your sex life?