would girls find a good looking guy attractive if he was a virgin?

So obviously girls find good looking guys attractive but would it be hard to believe or a turn off? I'm 19 and still a virgin who hasn't really done anything with a girl, although I'm not shy around them and I'm comfortable talking about sex and all that jazz if it comes up. I don't get red and what not and don't feel awkward. I have a mild speech impediment which is a little difficult to start conversations and what not. I'm laid back and just have a very chill personality, so I'm not a big talker, but mote of a listener. The reason I said good looking guys is because there has been quite a few good looking girls that usually came onto me. We hung out and I know for a fact that they were into me but it just didn't work out. So I consider myself relatively good looking haha. Anyways, should I be worried or anything? I understand college girls want someone experienced and not someone who has no relationship experience ...

You are so young, it's perfectly normal to be a virgin at your age. No: not all college girls "want someone experienced". Stop using blanket statements.

Being a virgin doesn't make a person more or less attractive. If a girl is attracted to you, she is attracted to you whether you're a virgin or not.

How would they know you're a virgin? Get to know a girl, have fun, date and enjoy the attraction and by the time she finds out she won't care.

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

How would they know you're a virgin? Get to know a girl, have fun, date and enjoy the attraction and by the time she finds out she won't care.

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The question always comes up whenever il hanging out with a girl haha.

When I was a girl, the guy being a virgin would have made me happier, calmer & more attracted to him. At my age -- old enough to be your mother -- a virgin would be an anomaly.

Don't lead with the info about your sexual status. Let things progress naturally. You can just sort of let nature take it's course if that's working for you. You really don't have to discuss everything to death. If you are at a point where you are talking with a potential partner and it feels right because you trust her, it's OK to disclose. Don't get hung up on it & since you have gone this far, hold out for love. Whatever you do, when you do decide to change your status be safe.

You said the subject ALWAYS comes up with new girls. Really? What the heck are you talking about so early? If you find yourself going down that road again, steer early conversations in another direction.

At 19, sure. That's totally not weird. (At my age (33), I'd run like hell!).

I don't know why you say "this question always comes up with girls", what kind of girls are you talking to? That's definitely not a question I ever asked a guy, I didn't care. Just stop thinking about it, and really if someone actually asks you about it before you're really dating (again, wtf?) don't act embarrassed about it, just admit it like it's no big deal because it isn't. Show some confidence is all. If you're cool with who you are, girls will be too. That's it. If a girl won't date you strictly because you're a 19 year old virgin, she's probably an idiot and someone you don't want to date anyway.

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Originally Posted by bluesummer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If a girl won't date you strictly because you're a 19 year old virgin, she's probably an idiot and someone you don't want to date anyway.

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Hear, hear!

Most people won't care either way these days.