My guy best friend is giving mixed signals. Help please :(
So, when I first met this guy back in August, we had a bit of a fling. After about a month, he said he didn't want a relationship so we stayed friends. Well, with benefits. But the thing about it is, he apparently still had feelings for me when I met someone else. He got so jealous and mad he wouldn't even talk to me for 3 weeks. Later he told me he was mad because he wanted me to wait for him, but he never told me he wanted that. Things with the new guy ended and me an the original guy went back to being good friends again. So much so that we consider each other best friends. And lately he was acting like he wanted to be with me. He would kiss me like in such caring ways and showed so much affection for me. I was sick and he stopped by my place to make sure I was okay and started coughing really bad one night out of nowhere while I was with him and he made sure that I was okay. He even wanted to introduce me to his family, and did. The other night we went out to the club and he started dancing with a girl, he was a very sloppy girl to say nicely, and I got upset and he did everything in his power to make me feel better. And even admitted that he still had feelings for me that night. He just really doesn't want a relationship. But, when he admitted that he was a little bit intoxicated, because normally he isn't one to show his feelings at all. He has denied it left and right for months that he doesn't have feelings period. But I tried to ask him last night, knowing I was running a big risk, whether or not I should wait for him and he immediately shut down and got angry because he doesn't want to feel pressured. I just don't know what to do or think about this situation. I feel like he's giving me mixed signals and I don't know how to address the situation because I don't want to push him away.
Help please :(