do u ask for the phone number?
do u ask them out for dinner? if she say "yes", what should u do after? ask for their phone number? ask where they want to go for dinner?
ask for their name?
i need ways to setup a date!
plz help
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do u ask for the phone number?
do u ask them out for dinner? if she say "yes", what should u do after? ask for their phone number? ask where they want to go for dinner?
ask for their name?
i need ways to setup a date!
plz help
First you have to be comfortable with talking to girls. After you get more confidence, make eye contact with a female to let her know your intrested. Smiling would help too. If she smiles back great. When you get closer give her a comment. Tell her her dress is nice, she has a great smile. then when you have her attention ask her basic questions (age,is she dating someone, what's she doing now, where she lives). After talking for a while ask her if she would like to go out some time. If she says yes than ask for her number. If she has a cell phone that's better
Get to know them. Be their friend for a while to see what kind of person they are.
You ofcourse need to hang out/talk to them more, this can only be achieved by getting some sort of contact from her. The best 2 ways to do this is just ask her for her number/email address. She might not give it out, but don't give up. But don't get obsessed or start stalking or anything.
Keep talking, keep your stuff flowing, conversate as much as possible, keep the conversations going, and be yourself. Be yourself meaning don't lie about stuff to get her to like you.
Find out stuff like what she likes to do for fun(this will come in handy for something I'm about to tell you)
After a while (about 2 weeks or so) if it seems like she likes you or anything, ask her if she wants to hang out. If she says yea, think about what she likes to do for fun, then think about the places in your town that you can take her. Choose the one you think would be the most fun for you and her. Then make a date. Don't make it seem like your inconfident. Be confident and show confidence without being an ass. When you ask her for her phone number, after she gives it to you, say something like "I'll call you sometime." This will leave her knowing you will call, but not knowing when. So she will probably ask you "When?" Then ask her "How about -time you want to call her-". Make it a time convenient for you. But if she says she is busy or working or anything at that time, pick a different one.
Same thing with hanging out; "I'd like to hang out with you sometime" "Yea, I'd love to hang out with you some time too!" "How does Miniature Golf(if she likes golfing) sound?" "Great!!" "Okay, I'll pick you up at -time you want to pick her up-." Maybe after you go golfing if you want to spend more time with her go "Man I'm hungry...You wanna go grab something to eat?" and if she says yea, don't take her to Mcdonalds. Take her somewhere nice that won't eat your wallet. OR- ask her if she wants to go anywhere/what kind of food she likes. Pick up the bill, it's the manly thing to do. Maybe after that or if she says no to the not hungry ask her to the movies?
When you take her home, make sure you get out of the car and open the door for her, and walk her to the door, you might get a kiss goodnight if you haven't already. Tell her you had fun, and you would like to do it again sometime. If she feels the same way she will tell you. If she don't she prolly won't say anything. If she had fun, make plans for another date. If she didn't, find another girl.
And never hit a girl. Never. And never force her to do anything she doesn't want to do, or I'll make your life hell because I hate guys like that. It will only make the girl hate you, and chances are she will never like you again, if you do.
And that's how this dating game works..Good luck! :)
ps: you WILL be rejected, sooner or later...just take it like a man and find another girl.. everone gets rejected, and nobody likes it. so stand strong.
Well... let's disect the fun out of the hook-up... Okay.. well.. the basics are that you need to have met... you need to keep contacting each other.. you need to get to know each other... and YOU... need to ask her out...
1. Meeting: When you meet someone, first impression don't mean squat. Yes, it's true that it is the first real established feelings of attraction, but this will only get you past step 2. A great way to meet people is to simply talk to them, it could be about anything.. YES.. anything... i've met some pretty stange couples.. and they've told me how they first met..
2. Contact: Before you go away and never get the chance to see that person again, or even be in the position to talk to them again, ask them for thier contact information. We often hear the phrase... "so hey.. did you get thier number?".. but what does that mean? Well duh... did you get her number? her SN, her e-mail, her xanga.. watever... the point is.. you need to find some way of talking to the other person... Once you do.. get ready for step 3.
3. Dating: When most people hear the term Dating, they often think that two people will try and seduce each other until they end up having sex, or that they two people will engage in other sexual or physical activities. This is needless to say.. not true. Dating is the time where two people are tired of contacting each other with a less emotional method.. and simply want to meet and talk in person. There is really nothing to be nervous about despite all the hype... If you can talk on the phone, or type on AIM, then you're ready to date... However.. this step is the most critical to establishing a relationship with the other person. During this time... it may seem that you are both just having fun and enjoying yourselves.. but in reality.. you are both keeping a good lookout for what the other person is doing.. and what signals are being given off... It is true that women are 10 (TEN) times better at reading body language and interpreting signals than men. Males tend to evaluate women on how "childish" they act, or how attractive they are.. Females have a much larger list.. Depending on age and maturaty... women want to see a mature man, someone who can protect them, support them, take care of them, and provide them with "security".. This term security for women can mean anything from financial security, to physical security, emotional security, to even sexual security. There are women who seem to find men unattractive if they are eager to have sex with them, or do not seem like they can be sexually loyal to thier female needs.
Back to the subject... during this time.. it is very important to understand what type of personality the person whom you are dating is... If you think that you would make a good match... test it further... If you think that you would not make a good match or have already began to lose interest... move on... at the same time... you must also keep in mind.. that you are also being evaluated my someone who is much better at rating.. so it is only fair if you give them the chance to rate you aswell...
If you seem to like the other person... and are confident that you would make a good match.. it is time for step 4.
4. The (Not SoOoOoO) Big Questiong: You are not asking her to marry you... You are simply telling her that you like her.. and waiting to see if she feels the same way about you... Yes.. this is in fact a tad bit geneticly unfair... but be a man, and take the ounce of a risk to find out... If she really does like you.. she will be flattered... don't forget.. women WANT to be asked out... they sit.. they wait.. they play your game.. but if you don't ask them out within a certain time frame.. they WILL get bored... and they WILL move on...
nice tips over here...they should sticky this
Easy as hell, just ask'em if they wanna come home with you for pizza and sex. Internationally known. Works a treat every time. Girls love it.
Having said that, some of my mates have tried this, and it didn't go too well. Works every time for me though. You might wanna cool it a bit, unless you're extremely confident. Girls don't do shy guys.
Possibly ask the name first. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Haxor
You: Hey! My name is (Insert Name) Nice to meet you!
Her: Hi I'm (Insert her name) Nice to meet you!
You: I was wondering if you would like to do something together maybe catch a movie or have lunch together, I would really like to get to know you!
Her: Sure sounds fun ehres my phone number, drop me a line sometime!
its that easy dont be afraid, and if shes real uptight and wont pay attention to what you ahve to say forget about it tehres mroe girls out there
i agree...Quote:
Originally Posted by wishiwassocial
moderators? could we by any chance sticky this for the sake of all people who dont know how to date?
very, very good advice.