Hello.
I hope you take the time to read through all of this, could use a piece of advice.
Anyway so I'm 16, my ex girlfriend is 14. We broke up the weekend before this one (23rd today) because of her being unsure about whether she likes me or not.
She felt her feelings were fading, I thought we'd get through it but no we did not. She decided we should break up.
We did. I broke off all contact with her for me to easier get over her (we had been together for approximately 3 months and she was my first real girlfriend, I was her first boyfriend.) So I had blocked her on skype, deleted her on facebook etc.
Then I felt that I still wanted to atleast be friends with her, so I added her on facebook again, we chat etc, somehow we got into a discussion of whether she regrets breaking up so quickly, she said she does regret that she didn't try a bit more. I tried to convience her to try a bit more, because I still like her alot, and she said she'd think about it.
The day after, she texted me asking if she could come over, and saying that we could hang out and try to be friends etc. When she came to my place, it seemed like everything was good, she seemed normal again, like she used to be when we were together. So anyway I could tell pretty much immidiately by her bodylanguage that she still wanted something more than to just be friends, one thing led to another and I suddenly kissed her when we were sitting close and having a good time. She kissed back and everything felt like it used to be. She wasn't unsure at that very moment anymore. It was easy.
Now we're both really confused. I don't know if she still wants to give it a shot, or if we're just fooling around. She knows I like her alot, and she told me that she still has feelings for me but sometimes it feels like she doesn't. I have explained to her that this is just a phase almost every relationship goes through, when the "crush" feelings are over, and you develop a deeper kind of love instead of ("just") shallow feelings.
So I'm going to her place tomorrow, and we're gonna hang I guess, I don't know though if I should act like a friend or if I should still try to do my best to get her to want to give it another shot. Last time I saw her everything just sorta happened, she agreed it felt good and like it used to be, and said that she can only be her true self around me.
So I could really use some advice on what she's going through, what I should do and perhaps someone's experience in a similar matter... I thank anyone who comment this from the bottom of my heart and hope that someone actually has the patience to read all of this. Sorry for the long post.
Regards.
