The guy I like is a virgin and I'm not...
I have been getting to know this guy and I have developed a huge crush on him. I decided to put myself out there and I asked him out last Friday. He agreed to go out. Later on, I was texting him trying to make plans and I kept getting answers like "I don't know" and "I don't care". Finally, he texted me and said, "I'm really sorry, but I don't want to go out". When I asked why he didn't just tell me that earlier, he said, "I don't know, I should have". He is going away for a little while in January and I asked if it was because he was going away or if he just wasn't interested in me. He said "both".
I was really confused, because he told a mutual friend (who was also really encouraging me to pursue him) that he was interested in me.
Then I found out from the same mutual friend that this guy is still a virgin and has never even been on a date. I can't wrap my head around why because he's a good-looking guy and he has an awesome personality. He's also not religious, so that's not a factor. The mutual friend told me that when he mentioned to this guy that I might ask him out, the guy got really nervous (could not get the friend to elaborate on that).
I'm not a virgin, although I'm not extremely experienced either. I have been in a couple of long-term relationships and was even engaged once. The guy is aware of that.
So... is it possible that he is interested but he's insecure because he's inexperienced and he knows I'm not? And what can I do to persuade him that I don't care about that? Especially since he doesn't know that I know he's inexperienced either because he's never said anything about it to me.
Re: The guy I like is a virgin and I'm not...
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basilandthyme
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What studies would you be referring to?
Thats not true. Only players think thay way abd they think any girl stupid enough to sleep with them is easy.
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