Would you care if a girl told you how she feels after you played her?
This is the same guy I wrote about before. http://www.loveforum.net/threads/85512-Is-groping-heavy-kissing-normal-for-a-first-date
I can't get him out of my head. All I can see is how sweet he was too me. It is like I push all negatives away and it hurts. I keep blaming myself for everything. The more I think about him, the more it hurts. But I want to tell him so bad few things. I want to tell him that I was not ready for what happened between us and he knew that. Also, that I am not girl who sleeps around. Otherwise he would not be second man in my life.
He kept in touch with me through texts last weekend. Since that nothing. I wrote him on Facebook and he did not even read it. Then I said if he does not want to talk to me anymore, he can be honest with him. After that I got my reply asking how my day is.
I am so confused about everything. I wish what he told me was real but I keep doubt everything because his actions don't match his words. It hurts very bad and that's why I want to tell him how I feel about it. Would it look desperate? Or can I be honest with him?
Re: Would you care if a girl told you how she feels after you played her?
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Well, not sure if this is cold to you but it is for me... I was just going to tell him that what happened between us was something I was not ready for and he knew it. Also, that I was honest with him about everything including not sleeping around. That I really liked him. And that's all I have so far.
I dont think this is a good idea tbh. This guy is not gonna care how you feel. The next time hes in town hell just try to fill you up with sweet words again so he can hurt and use you again. Its better to forget about him, block him and try to heal.
If you want to contact him say something like "you crossed a line with me, you knew i didnt want to sleep with you and you forced me. I feel sick about this and i know you dont care but i think you should know what you did was wrong and i dont want to hear from you again"
It may also be a good way to get him to admit what he did so you have proof if you want to go to the police about this. He assaulted you and he shouldnt just get away with it
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