greetings folks

came across this site when searching for forums about relationships.
Look for advice in searches and everything seems to be sites trying to sell books or memberships to dating sites.
Not sure how much I will be around. Probably one of those who posts a lot at first and then slows down.
Anyways I finally decided to get back into the dating scene and came across a situation I wasn't really prepared for, which I will get into in the general discuss. It shall be my second thread, yes.

So then, thanks for having me.