Getting real with marriage
My wife and I have known each other 8 years and been married almost 5 years. We have great chemistry both physical and otherwise and I genuinely think we're meant to be together.
I've done my bit sidestepping questions like "Do I look fat in this dress?", "Am I looking pretty today?", "Is my make-up looking okay?" or "Were you checking that girl out?" and I feel that 8 years in, it's high time we be a bit more honest with each other. This is starting to cause serious issues in our relationship - my wife thinks I have changed and that I don't love her anymore and repeatedly accuses me of lying to her and disregarding her feelings.
I love her dearly but I really don't want to spend the rest of my life not being able to speak my mind all the time with the most important person in my life.
What should I do?