I used to feel that way too, and wanted to fix, save, and change plenty of romeo's. But most of the Romeo's haven't change yet, and I have, and glad I learned to walk away from those unhealthy relationships. I don't alow guilt to get me anymore, because I know that I rather live in joy and happiness than be abused emotionally, mentally, and spiritually the rest of my life because other people don't choose to help themselves. There are so many people in the world that live in pain and suffering and unhappy relationships because they want to be people pleasers, fix others, change others, and save them. Only it never happens, and they drain you emotionally and mentally and sometimes financially. You can love people, but love isn't always enough to change those that have alot of past issues. People don't change until they learn to stop being the victim, and I've been their myself. The past can be horrible sometimes, but at some point in time we have to let it go, and heal and move on. I really got tired of harming myself because everyone else has issues. It makes alot of sense to me now after everyone always blaming me. But in fact I've done my inner work and watched others for quite awhile and see they haven't done any. lol This world is pretty amazing when everyone is in denial of the part they play. Sorry to ramble, but I know how hard it is to jump out of emotional and mental baggage and dysfunction. It's a hard journey, and only the strongest make it through those changes for the better. :)