Low self esteem issue .

Hi . I have been facing low-self esteem problem lately. Don't have confidence in my self. In short, i am full of doubts and thinks too much for 'if's and 'but's. (The reason for me not to get into relation)

How can i overcome the problem. Because everyone likes ambitious and confident friends.
and secondly, how can you make girl feel special with you

please answer these questions

Maybe buy a good book on boosting self esteem and work hard to change your negative self talk.

Just be yourself with a girl. When you really care about someone it usually just comes naturally but plenty of quality time, affection a bit of romance makes most girls feel special.