Last time I was talking to my girlfriend and I said something about having sex, and she said "everything has to do with sex in your mind" I was sort of taken aback. Yea I enjoy sex but I don't talk about it 24/7 or expect it 24/7
I don't do nice stuff for her thinking "hey i'll get some sex now"
i SAID "no it's not" back to her and was kind of not sure what to say next
should i maybe discuss this with her?
Tell her that the conversation the other day has really bothered you and you'd like to talk about it futher. It's important to not do it in a defensive manner. Rather, approach it in a manner of wanting to know how you appear to others.
Let her talk without interrupting or defending yourself. Then go away and think about it honestly - but if after thinking you believe she really, really misunderstands you, then it's OK to tell her.
That being said, it may have just been something she said without thinking. A gender stereotype she used on you.
i think i just need to back off on the sex
So are you saying that she's right then? That every time you're with her you end up trying to get some?
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good question...
Except you are a slouch in bed..because, if you make her legs curl during sex..all you have to do is look at her funny and she is all yours......
You are not hitting it right bro...contact Flacoin (or something like that)..word has it that he is the sex--pert for guys..
thank me later
How often do you have sex? Do you do other things together like go for dinner, watch a movie, cuddle, hold hands, spend quality time just enjoying each others company? Can she talk to you if shes upset without it being a big joke or automatically leading to sex?
If yes to all the above then shes in the wrong here. Sex is a healthy part of a relationship and equal to all of the above.
How long have you been together?
everything is fine between us, honestly i think i just talk about it to mucg
So she was right basically. Well hope it works out for you.
Masturbate to porn more, there that will fix it.
She's just a little repressed. If you make it fun and flirty talk it works. If it's dry, then you get a dry response...literally :P
You have a right to seek out sex as much as you'd like. She doesn't have to give it to you, but if your libidos don't match up, I'd look for a different partner. Mismatching sex drives isn't gonna work.