I just wanted to get some people's perspectives...
My girlfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for about 2 years. We're in our mid-twenties.
She has a full-time job with a vacation time limit. Plus, she has a small family of just one brother and her parents. They don't travel a lot.
I have an online marketing business that allows me a lot of freedom and flexibility. Plus, have various brothers and sisters and parents who are both re-married and both sets travel a lot.
There is problem disagreement about fairness developing in the relationship.
I have a lot of opportunities (and means) to travel. My brother is going somewhere and he asked me to come. My mom goes to an all-inclusive ever year and frequently asks me to come.
The bottom line is that I travle a lot and have opporunties to travel with others. My gf only has a chance to travel with me. Now, her and I have been on multiple large international trips together since we've been in a relationship. But she sees it as a fairness sort of problem if I am often going to places without her.
I see it as a fairness problem if I have the opportunity and I'm expected not to go.
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Sorry for the language. English is my second.