My ex won't leave me alone?

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12-03-14, 05:26 PM
Pirkulese13

My ex won't leave me alone?

We have been broken up for over 4 months now, and I want to move on. I decided to move on after she caused me too much pain, as I thought we could get back together, but THAT didn't work. So I stopped texting her. Two weeks after I decided to not text her, she texts me, telling me she had my sweatshirts. I told her I didn't want to see her, so she could pack them away, or give it to a guy she has class with, who also works with me. She denied both of the options. Then she wanted to try being friends, and I decided to give it a shot. About a week and a half went by, and she made no effort in trying to be friends, I would text her and she would give me one word answers. I then decided to just give up and cut her off and move on, so I did. Again, two weeks after that, she decided to show up to work about my sweatshirt (I told her I didn't want to see her in person, as I respected her request to not talk to her everyday) and started talking to me about the sweatshirts. She said she was going to bring them to work, but forgot (figures), and that she will drop them off when I tell her. I told her to drop them off the next day, and if I wasn't home, to just leave them in my yard, and she said it was fine. Later the next day, she texted me and told me she wasn't going to make it. We haven't talked since then. So I am wondering, why is she taking so long to give the sweatshirts back/giving me excuses? And what do I do? I want to move on, but it is hard with the thought that she will show up some day at work or contact me. Please help! :(
12-03-14, 05:33 PM
HeartIsAching

Because you keep being wishy-washy and giving her hope.

Tell her to donate them to Goodwill and cut contact.
12-03-14, 05:36 PM
Pirkulese13

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Because you keep being wishy-washy and giving her hope.

Tell her to donate them to Goodwill and cut contact.

I have told her to do what she wants with them because I do not want to see her in person, yet she always shows up. I have told her this twice already.
12-03-14, 06:36 PM
basilandthyme

Try being rude to her when she calls next about the sweatshirts. Tell her "I've already told you that I dont care what you do with the fvcking sweaters. Now just piss of out of my life you crazy b*tch"

That should do it.
13-03-14, 01:59 PM
moneyspills

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Originally Posted by Pirkulese13 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

We have been broken up for over 4 months now, and I want to move on. I decided to move on after she caused me too much pain, as I thought we could get back together, but THAT didn't work. So I stopped texting her. Two weeks after I decided to not text her, she texts me, telling me she had my sweatshirts. I told her I didn't want to see her, so she could pack them away, or give it to a guy she has class with, who also works with me. She denied both of the options. Then she wanted to try being friends, and I decided to give it a shot. About a week and a half went by, and she made no effort in trying to be friends, I would text her and she would give me one word answers. I then decided to just give up and cut her off and move on, so I did. Again, two weeks after that, she decided to show up to work about my sweatshirt (I told her I didn't want to see her in person, as I respected her request to not talk to her everyday) and started talking to me about the sweatshirts. She said she was going to bring them to work, but forgot (figures), and that she will drop them off when I tell her. I told her to drop them off the next day, and if I wasn't home, to just leave them in my yard, and she said it was fine. Later the next day, she texted me and told me she wasn't going to make it. We haven't talked since then. So I am wondering, why is she taking so long to give the sweatshirts back/giving me excuses? And what do I do? I want to move on, but it is hard with the thought that she will show up some day at work or contact me. Please help! :(

Don't pick her calls and don't reply her text. She will become frustrated and leave you.

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Try being rude to her when she calls next about the sweatshirts. Tell her "I've already told you that I dont care what you do with the fvcking sweaters. Now just piss of out of my life you crazy b*tch"

That should do it.

I love this one. Perfect for this situation.