im confuse. help me

Guys i am little confuse with a matter and wants to discuss it with you so might be able to find out a clear path out of it

I am 23 . busy in professional life as any other person would be . getting mature. i don't feel any special need for any girl in my life. i m almost happy being alone.
but sometime i fell the gap in life. mean i m unmotivated. i don't feel a power to pursue my dreams . sometime i think i might look out for some friends (or gf maybe) so they might help me out to go for brighter side of life.
will getting into friendship or relatinship help things out in my case .?

Secondly sometimes i think i should wait for right time to establish myself and then get into all this (relationship and gf scene) . and but then i think its always like "wait for right time". its like now or never.

what do you guys suggest.

Life is about balance. Find a way to have a career and friendships.