Various Questions - Need advice from women (and maybe helpful tips from men too?)
Hi,
I have some questions that I have and wish to get various opinions from women on this forum. Please answer accordingly to its numeral number. Thank you.
1 - What major qualities do you look for in a guy and what type of mindset does this guy have when he first meets you?
2 - Scenario time. Tell me the positive and negatives of these two separate people and what they can do to improve their personality/look etc.
I'll give you two options/ scenarios.
i. A nice guy. He's average looking, build etc. He's nice, caring, genuine and knows how to treat a girl well. He's not "dirty", a player or anything like that. He's just genuine. He doesn't eye up girls in clubs, he rather find someone special and someone that he kind find a genuine connection with.
ii. A jock. He's a lot bigger and a big player. He can pretty much get with any girl he wants.
3 - Is a "nice guy" date-able? I have been called "nice" amongst similar adjectives by several people. I have just started work and one of my co-workers said I was very "polite". One of my friends at university introduced me to her friend and called me "the most nicest person you'll ever meet" - a great thing to say about me; but is it a positive adjective/mindset that would get me into a relationship? I've been called "sweet, nice etc" by several other people too. For those wondering what I'm like (I'm 19, university/college student. I've never dated/kissed a girl and I am a virgin)
4 - Is virginity worth holding onto? Is virginity worth the experience of having it with someone special - rather than being every other guy and doing it with people you meet in clubs?
I look forward to seeing some response.
Your friend
-soccerguy987