Partner obsessed with Pornography

Hi Guys,

I'm needing a bit of male advice on this topic, and of course women are welcome to respond as well.

I have been living with my partner for a year now and it's come to my attention that he goes on pornography sites nearly on a daily basis. Although our sex life is healthy and his needs are met quite regularly throughout the week, i just can't help but feel somewhat unworthy when he continuously looks on pornagraphic sites nearly on a daily basis. I get guys look at this stuff occasionally and if it was just that, well than it's fine. But when it's nearly a daily basis it becomes a problem, especially when it's lie after lie and being dishonest about the whole thing. Many times he will look at it at work before he starts and masturbate in the bathroom. This to me is just wrong!!

WE have discussed this issue quite a few times and one thing i brought to his attention is that he needs to be upfront and honest with me rather than lie about visiting these sites when asked. Each time he still continues to lie point blank and just looks for different ways of hiding it. As much as it doesn't sit well with me it's more the deceit behind it. You can look at his phone and it's just full of naked girl pics which have all been photoshopped and built to perfection. Ultimately being fantasy rather than reality.

I've brought up discussions of sexual fantasies etc as i'm the type of woman that likes to keep my man happy in every aspect. I'm all into spicing things up all in the name of arousal and love making. Although many guys I talk to say, gee i wish my MRS would be so forthcoming in that department, he shuts down and is embarrassed talking about intimate things.

I suppose is it normal for a guy to look at porn so frequently??

Please help, what do i do???

Jewels