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please help me understand if I am obsessed
I like 2 guy as a friends and have fun with them not sex but then I like them more and will do what I can to see them when ever I can, I know that they like me but is my obsession for wanting to be in there lives a lot driving them away. if so what can I do, when I want something I go for it but with these two blokes I cant say how I feel to them as I don't know what they will say and will I lose them as friends.
please help
Do you mean that you do everything with them? There isn't one event where you have missed? Which one of the two do you like more honestly if you ask yourself?
To stop this, you need to focus on your life and what will help you in future rather than following the two guys like a puppy dog. Its the same idea as a girl stringing along a guy because she just wants fun but always leaves a little behind to make the guy keep coming back.
First ask yourself the simple questions, where you want to be later on in life? What do you want to do? If you do not expand your network or friendships with new people will you be stuck in the same world you are in now?