why wont my husband end his affair or just leave me?
I've been married 17yrs m w him since I was 16 .I found out on fathers day 2012 he looked up x b4 on fb n was calling n texting her,threw phone records confronted him n told him he either had to end wjatever was hoing on or leave.he left then only w a few cloths.she left her husband that nite to.anyway he was gone 6 months n wjole time he was w her was still comeing n sleeping w me n playing mind games he didn't know what he wanted n needed time fig himself out. He moved bk 6months later only to keep this going on w her stil he won't leave n just b w her n he won't emd it n iv talked to I'm nlue in the face to him n he says he knows somethings gotta change one way or the other but don't do anything but keep her waiting n me living this bs I just want a normal life n to move past this or move on we have 3teenage boy's .I need advice I'm so confused n don't know why he continues tjis n just won't move nk w her or end it w me