Hi, I have been dating a woman about two months and on the third or so date she revealed that she is living with a man. She said she met the man originally in a dating context, but quickly decided she would only consider him a friend. He was down on his luck, financial issues, mental health issues, so she said he could come live with her to get him back on his feet. He helps with her two teenage sons, such as driving them to school, helps around the house, etc. Seems to even attend some family holiday functions. I think she also enjoys the company of another adult in the house. He is not happy she is dating me and doesn't want to "put it in his face", so as a result we can't spend any time at her house. She doesn't like driving the distance to where I live, so our time is mostly spent out in restaurants. She says I shouldn't make a big deal about the situation and if we get serious, eventually the situation will resolve and he would need to find somewhere else to live, but given his finances and mental issues is easier said than done. So who is right? Something I shouldn't worry about?
Thanks for your thoughts!