Dismissive avoidant

Is it possible to make a relationship work with a dismissive avoidant person. If u want intimacy and open relationship and they seek to avoid it what hope is there. Supposedly all stable attachment ppl are in relationships which leaves the avoidants and the preoccupied and avoidants are attracted to preoccupied and these relationships rarely work so it really is a mess out there for the single ppl left over the older u get. Thats all my bitching and complaining For one day!!

I think you should get off the internet and get out there and meet people and stop being so ridiculous with all these hypothetical dating questions and assumptions.