Before I left for school in the middle of August, my girlfriend of 9 months broke up with me, her reasoning because i was going to college. At the beginning of the breakup I did the typical stupid thing and begged for her back and she didn't want anything to do with me.
I woke up and started treating her like a friend and suddenly shes saying she loves me again (still no talk of getting back together) and that she wants to say bye to me before I leave. So she says bye and we started to...makeout and do whatever, and then we both said this would be a bad idea.
So I go to college and she constantly calls me, I come home that weekend cause I forgot something and we hang out fri. and sat. and had sex each time (sorry if im not supposed to post that). Each time after she cried saying she didn't know what we were and that she was confused. I said we're just friends (I still liked her).
So we still talk on the phone alot and it seems like we haven't even broke up. I transferred back home to school for reasons. I called her one night and say lets go out this weekend and she says no i don't think thats a good idea cause what my friends would say. I got suspicious and confused and we kept talking. Eventually she broke into tears saying she was confused on the situation.........week later I found out she had went on a date that weekend before.
We go out one night to the movies and afterwards I tell her, you still have feelings for me its obvious by what you do. She says no, I said then why would you cry several times since we've broken up (she cried on the phone aswell twice) and say you're confused. Her response was getting extremely mad saying "I wanted to make sure you knew we were friends, I don't like you I think we shouldn't talk."
I then found out that she likes this other guy and went on a date with him. Now this guy is extremely unattractive and way out of her league. I'm not jealous, I'd admit if he was attractive but hes not a looker at all. They have a connection because they've been good friends for a while, and they were both best friends with a kid who died two weeks ago.
I don't think her relationship will last long at all with him, she dated him in middle school and he cheated on her and hes known to sleep with a bunch of nasty girls.
We are friends right now, but we aren't talking...how do I get her back? I know she still has feelings for me, if I was in denial I'd understand but the shit she does makes it obvious that she still likes me. So what should I do? I still love her a lot and I think she is just trying to make herself not like me for some reason. Any advice would be greatly appreciated...
