Originally Posted by shh!
A movie is very nice, but you won't get much of a chance to talk to her. That is why I suggested coffee (or the teenage equivalent). Besides, movies/popcorn/soda, etc. can be expensive for a 14 year old. Maybe you can take her to get ice cream or tacos or something like that? Also, I love bookstores, and I notice lots of kids hanging around listening to music and having coffee in Barnes and Noble. Is she a smart girl? If she is, I bet she would like that... Is she athletic? Maybe a bike ride...