effect of not having sex on attitude....

I've been lurking here for a while and finally decided to ask this question...

And I apologize upfront, because chicks might be the same way. I'm not, but I don't have alot of experience with sexual relationships with chicks so for all I know they might be. lol.

Does a lack of sex make you consciously make a greater effort to be a good guy towards a woman that you are trying to sleep with?



I've noticed with the last two guys I dated it was exactly this way. It's frustrating, but I'd like to believe it's not a conscious decision....

Everyone - male and female - is on their very best behaviour when dating someone new. I don't think that lack of sex would have anything to do with it...it's more about the excitement of a new relationship.

It's not till about the six month mark when the rose coloured glasses come off that we start to see what it's really going to be like with a partner.