Why Did My Ex Chose An Immature Girl Over US????
I have a feeling my ex left me for a girl who was dating his friend for 8 years. Now, all the time we were dating, he said she's annoying and could never make it in this world - at 34 years old she has NO job, she lives at home, she's a nag and has no prospects for her life. She said she's going to school, but isn't pursuing any degree that will make her successful.
She seems very immature from the 2 times I met her and she's a bimbo - she has nothing intelligent to say and I'm not sure how my ex could leave me for someone who is an emotional disaster and, from what he said a year ago, is not mentally stable.
I have a full time job, I'm 100 % independent with my own apartment and I'm very strong emotionally/mentally - and I've always taken care of my ex, cooked for him, massaged him when he had a hard day and we really enjoyed each other until SHE came into the picture, during which time he said he wants to "spend more time with his friends" which is obviously with her.
Why would a man chose a woman with less self-worth? My ex even moved back to his parents house, like a teenager, to spend more time with her, it seems. Will he eventually get annoyed at being with someone who's life is in a shambles??? While he had a lot of financial responsibility with me, we had an ADULT life with no drama.
Why turn to a girl who's a hot mess with no future?