I could be in trouble...

Hi all

I'll keep this brief....

I'm male early 30s, have a gf. I play in band with a female mber who's dating another member of the band.

When I've been with female member of the band I think about her a lot, not so much when I haven't seen her. I think I might be developing feeling for her even though I don't want to! We're both in relationships and it'll make things really complicated!

We do seen to have a connection and get on really well and she kinda gets in my head!

Anyone have any advice?

Thanks

J