Hello guys,
I'd like to ask you a question. I have a lover. I am 30 and he is 45. But better say HAD. Not a GF/BF relationship. We were really into each other. Amazing sex. And I felt we had feelings for each other gradually developed as well. I noticed he liked playing mind games to make me want him more. I told him once or twice I'd really like a man having me pleading for fuc... me. He said he was gonna do anything to make me happy. No reason why I shouldn't have trusted him. I wanted the same for him. Then all of a sudden he began to put off our thrilling rides, excusing himself. Then said it was end. It wasn't. Then another I want you now... common mind games, but I hated the waiting. Then he called me over, I came... Left, I love you, I love you. Sweet texting the next day. But then he became cold again. I told myself I was not gonna playing now and gave him an ultimatum, which he obviously refused. All via texting. I waited, then asked him to see me. He refused with a short compliment. Then, I lost patience and texted him (during the time in which I was asked not to text to him), "If you are not gonna give me what I want, I am going to find it somewhere else this friday." He replied "Enjoy". The next day he texted me after my unobtrusive, maybe a bit easy-going, message, Do not text me, do not call, I don't want you. i apologized and stated that I am staying home on Friday night. And went no conntact. It has been 4 days and no reply. Today I sent him 3 messages. The last one was quite emotional :-). No response of course, otherwise, I would not ask here :).
Btw. I was asked to come to dinner that Friday, which I refused but wanted to make him a bit jealous.
I am asking you. Is this another mind game? Is he punishing me? Is it really over? I am going to see him this Saturday how shall I behave? We had a really deep connection a week ago. But I am afraid he might think I am a slut... He has always been a bit shy and insecure, even though I texted him that I was not going to any date.