Everything Is Okay to Not Caring to Believing Others and Not You?
Having been with my Bf for 1 year almost, he broke down tonight, going into telling me how he was talking to some people friends of his and that they were telling him that I didn't care about him, I was using him, and making fun of him etc. He then says why don't I care about him? He knows I care but why can't I tell him "Everything will be okay" OR "Its alright". He should know everything is alright and okay. He's the one getting all of this stuff from other people, instead of coming to me for the RIGHT info, he rather believe others instead of me. He is one of those guys that is insecure, needy, clingy, needs to be paid attention too, showing care, etc. I have told him, if I don't fit what you want and these "flaws" your pointing out, then why are you with me? He says because he loves and cares for me. It just doesn't make sense. I don't know what to do.