Boyfriend's family and commitment

My boyfriend who iv been with for one year is albanian. He lives in uk but most his family live in albanian still. They found out hes with an english girl and hate me because im english and dont want him to be with me. He wont let anything about us go on facebook which i hate! He never puts me first , he will let me down last minute for anything but then when i tell him he doesn't understand! I love this boy but wish he put our relationship first and didn't listen to others! Dont know what to do:( please help!